I had an experience that really gave me empathy for wives that do not accept their husband's en femme. My wife and I had a costume idea that we wanted to try at our at home; Bonnie and Clyde from the 1967 movie. Of course I would be Bonnie, and my wife Clyde. Well, after 45 years together I had never seen my wife present "in male" and I was upset when I saw her. I did not the least bit like how she looked, as a matter of fact, it made me very uncomfortable, and I could not wait until she took off the costume and returned to her normal, womanly appearance! I would never want to see her dress as a man again! So I can completely understand those SOs who do not want to see their husband dressed as a women.
On the other hand, I can sympathize with those here that have a non accepting SO and the pain it must cause. I have the most accepting, encouraging, wife you could ever imagine! Has anyone else had a similar reaction to seeing their wife dress as a man?