My wife and I were out at the Lush store a few days ago, enjoying the scents and picking out new stuff. One of the store associates was male (making me slightly envious of his job, although probably not his pay) and had on skinny jeans. At the time, it bothered me.
Which is weird, because I have no problems wearing such jeans as a crossdresser. For me it wasn't the jeans, it was that he was a guy and should be wearing guy clothes if he's presenting as a guy.
Has anyone else had this conundrum? That you're bothered by men wearing something effeminate, but wouldn't have a problem if they were to crossdress?
And yes, I realize the irony was that I was in the Lush store with my wife, something most men wouldn't do...