An experienced crossdresser recently told me that residual feelings of childhood insecurity from male-them transfer over to female-them. Does that ring true for everyone out there?
I'm still thinking about it, but I can say truthfully that since Nikki surged to the surface this summer, I've been noticeably less insecure- dwelling far, far less on past mistakes; fretting less about home security, feeling more confident, more content with myself and my life in general.
CDing for me has been a move away from my insecurities, thank god.
Nikki