I have to agree with a lot of the comments above. This sounds like a potential dream come true, but could also be a nightmare come true. Make sure your expectations are realistic. I can see this much better if you knew the roommate at least somewhat prior to moving in. I would not get too aggressive with the dressing at first (by that I mean asking to use some of her clothes, asking for makeup help or to borrow things, etc). If she warms up to all this, she may start getting more involved with it, but don't push it all on her. Some of those replies may have taken you as you presented that you were looking for a roommate and is the dressing okay with them, rather than looking for a coach and tutor who is intimately involved with all this. Another concern I would have is that these are by definition most likely single women and they will likely be bringing dates home from time to time, sometimes unannounced. How are those guys going to respond to all this? I know how it should be, but reality could be rather uncomfortable.