What do our SOs hate about crossdressing
1. It takes time away from them
2. It costs money that could be used for other things
3. Trust and secrecy issues
But, there are a number of socially acceptable pursuits that have similar characteristics, for example golf.
I am a reformed golfer. I used to be in a company sponsored golf league that played after work one night a week.
So let’s talk about golf. We've all probably heard the term “golf widow”, which is a wife who’s left alone a lot because her husband spends so much time on the golf course. A committed golfer may watch golfing on TV when it is off season, and may spend his weekends on the golf course when it is in season. He (and he’s usually a he) may spend a lot of money on golfing equipment, may read golf magazines that review golfing techniques and golfing equipment. In addition to the time spent on the golf course, he may spend time with his golfing buddies at the 19th hole. He may take his golf equipment on business trips so he can get in a round or two of golf while he’s out of town. He may schedule some golf vacations with his golf buddies, leaving his wife at home. He may even take his golf clubs along on family vacations to sneak in a few rounds.
If you replace the word “golfing” with “CDing”, and golf equipment with clothes, makeup, wigs, forms, doesn't this sound a lot like being a CDer?
But no woman would be afraid to tell her mom, her dad, his sister, her brother or her friends that her husband was golfing. But they would be concerned about telling them that her husband was CDing.
So, then, what is it about golfing that allows it to be spoken about in polite company, while CDing remains a state secret? In my opinion, it’s the social acceptability.
If you’re still with me, then the real question is, ‘What’s so wrong about CDing?”
1. Money spent
2. Time spent away from SO
3. Time spent thinking about doing it
4. Time spent shopping for things with which to do it
5. Time for lessons on how to do it better
6. Keeping the secret
Just like golf, even the secret part. Do you think a golfer is going to tell his wife how much he spent for his fancy new putter?