Sometimes I think my wife and I are in a DADT relationship, as I sometimes outwardly include "like the fact I smoke and crossdress" in a sentence, but she never really engages and asks anything.
She's very liberal, thinking everyone should love everyone, no matter who they are, as long as they're not a murderer or something. When we watch shows on TV and any homophobia is expressed, it makes her angry, as she has lots of gay friends and thinks homosexuality is fine and should be respected.
So it's really strange how sometimes when I mention crossdressing, she says "Oh God, I wonder if our kids will end up gay too. All transvestites are gay, you know?" How narrow-minded, in my view! I only have sexual feelings for women and have often thought of myself as a repressed lesbian rather than a homosexual man.
