Hello all,
Well I just about signed a email to one of my co-workers as Joan. Talk about being in a fog, everything today has been driven by being more like Joan in real life. Company had the fitness coach in today, so I went to my normal appointment this time I updated my goals to be more with in line with losing weight and appearing more feminine. I also took a bit of a leap and poked my head into the HR rep's office. Told her that I might have something to talk to her about in the upcoming months. That it's personal but I don't want it to affect my job, and I want to make sure goes ok. She asked how long I've been married, and I also told her that it's going to be revisiting something that my wife thought we dealt with. That I've tried to do it "this way" but it's not working very well.
At that point her tone got very soft and I could tell she was being careful with her words. She said that I can come to her and talk and if need be keep it closed, or she can be the go between for whoever in the company. I'm unsure what she thinks the "problem" is I walked away with the feeling that she might just think I'm gay. I'm not sure, but she was kind to me and that's all that I care about in this moment.
Joan