Wow! What wonderful advice from so many different points of view.
Interestingly, something struck a chord in me on August 09, 2014 :-) I received an email from an online catalog that promoted a woman's night gown. I was having some relationship problems and something just happened. I ordered the night gown, but put it in a drawer (unopened) for a few weeks. I questioned myself, my relationships, my sexuality, my past, and felt strange and guilty. Finally, I opened the package, held it up against me, liked what I saw, and then put it on. I was hooked, and no longer felt strange or guilty, but confident this was right.
Then, for the first time I can remember, I felt whole.
Questions about yourself are surely natural. As someone just replied to me, "Enjoy the ride."
Best wishes,
Vanessa