My wife shocked me last night in a good way. We was out with friends watching another friend's band when she lend over and said " I want to see your pictures of Carly". My wife knows about Carly, supports her, we shop for her and Carly's clothes hangs in the closet with all the other clothes. But my wife has always said she didn't want to see me totally dressed. So it was a shocked when she asked. I showed her some pictures I recently posted here. She was shocked....in a good way. She looked at me at said Carly was pretty. It was hard not to cry in front of my buddies lol. We got home and then she surprised me again and suggested her and Carly meet. Sooo at 1 am I'm shaking like a leaf trying to look my best for their first meeting. I walked into the room and it went perfect! It was wonderful! This morning we talked and the feelings are still the same, no one had regrets about last night. We also agreed to have Carly around the house more often and set some "guidelines" on when and how often. I truly never thought this day would come. I think the key was lots of communication, patience and respecting rules we had made together. I love my wife so much and am so lucky to have her in my life.