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    Does anyone else feel/act differently when they underdress? (small story)

    I was out in a Walmart today getting some stuff for a friends birthday and while I was there I somehow got the confidence to pick up a pair of black tights, and a nice waist cincher that I had been looking at online for a while. After I got back into my car I decided "what the hell" and put them on for the drive home. I have never tried underdressing before, but I felt like I could do anything I wanted at that point. Seeing as it was 9:30 at night I wasn't actually able to go many places but I did end up stopping at another big box store, and a thrift store on the way back to browse the women's sections (but still haven't managed to find my first pair of shoes yet).

    It was very strange seeing as I have never had the confidence to do that before. I was wondering if anyone else has had similar experiences?

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    Why would you feel any different?
    Nobody knows what you have on but you.

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    I never underdress either........but I get it.......once I had on a bikini under my clothes when i was going to the nude beach and i thought to myself ( oh....THIS is what underdressing feels like) .....i can see why people dig it......

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    Yes i think that i do actually. I feel more relaxed and at ease and like life much more. I think that makes me act with more self confidence.

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    I must echo the sentiment expressed by DorothyElizabeth's ex who liked to wear a garter belt and no panties when she was centre stage at some important meeting. I have enjoyed doing a similar thing. If I am involved in some important public event I always choose my most elegant underwear.

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    I lose a lot of stress in my everyday life when I underdress. I love going shopping, to work, or the gym knowing that I have panties on under my male clothes. The whole experience is much more relaxing.

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    Kevin, glad you enjoyed it. It is great isn't it. Try payless if its sizes that are larger do a search here for online shops.

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    Yes it does feel great, don't know why.There is a special feeling when you meet a GG you know when underdresseed, it has happened to me a couple of times when out walking the dog, or doing some routine shopping. Weird I know but heh, who cares.

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    For a lot of sisters here underdressing isn't much, I wear panties and pantyhose everyday after work in the winter months. When I do go out I feel a little fem just with that feeling of the pantyhose rubbing against my legs. I feel different when underdressed.

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    I mostly underdress 24/7. The exception was at work, where a bra would have been a bit obvious under a thin shirt. But I do enjoy it, and wear more than that whenever possible, including stockings. Unless I'm at home though, I stay away from knee highs, as they tend to fall down without warning and bunch around my ankles, outside of my pants.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vikky View Post
    Yes it does feel great, don't know why.There is a special feeling when you meet a GG you know when underdresseed, it has happened to me a couple of times when out walking the dog, or doing some routine shopping. Weird I know but heh, who cares.

    Vikky
    A girl I was with once tried to discreetly adjust her thong, as I looked at her she said "sorry, this thing keeps getting uncomfortable today, not my most comfortable pair".

    I just smiled, I was having the same problem! I didn't say that though

    Back on topic I think I do feel differently, generally seem to have more energy, which is odd, but useful!

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    Like many girls, when I first began dressing, I loved the feel of nylons, girdles, bras, etc. So much so that I wore them all day long under my drabs. It was exciting to feel the titeness, and slippery ness of them as I moved. For awhile.

    Then, it just became uncomfortable and unsatisfying. To be replaced forever by the joy, satisfaction, and excitement of dressing all the way at home!
    U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.

    Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!

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    I like to underdress. It gives you a femenin feeling in the public domain. A bra is more difficult but i love to wear it when there is the oppertunity.
    I feel i get more and more guts to do so.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kevin_unknown View Post
    I was out in a Walmart today getting some stuff for a friends birthday and while I was there I somehow got the confidence to pick up a pair of black tights, and a nice waist cincher that I had been looking at online for a while. After I got back into my car I decided "what the hell" and put them on for the drive home. I have never tried underdressing before, but I felt like I could do anything I wanted at that point. Seeing as it was 9:30 at night I wasn't actually able to go many places but I did end up stopping at another big box store, and a thrift store on the way back to browse the women's sections (but still haven't managed to find my first pair of shoes yet).

    It was very strange seeing as I have never had the confidence to do that before. I was wondering if anyone else has had similar experiences?

    IT GETS EASIER EVERY TIME AND THE MORE YOU "DO IT" THE BETTER IT GETS

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    I underdress a lot and I feel like I can conquer the world don't know why because I am still in closet maybe. I do feel pretty sexy when I'm underdressed. Guess we all have different feelings.

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    There is sort of an inner peace, knowing that I'm dressed much like my GG ex wife did almost every day of her life, so it kind of feels genuinely girl appropriate to be wearing bra and panties under jeans and a flannel shirt. I rarely do so, however. At home I dress all female, and don't go out much.
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    Why don't we understand our desire to dress, behave and feel like a girl? Because from childhood, boys are told that the worst possible thing we can be, is a sissy. This feeling is so ingrained into our psyche, that we will suppress any thoughts that connect us to being or wanting to be feminine, even to the point of creating separate personalities to assign those female feelings into.

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    I have just barely began underdressing at work as well. At first it was kind of terrifying, wondering if I had like pantylines or something, but so far so good! I always have something feminine on underneath as of late even if it is just a pair of panties. As other girls have said, it makes me feel more in tune with my inner self, and makes for a happier me

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    The first piece I ever bought was a corset from Frederick's of Hollywood. I was dropping my parents off at the airport 1.5 hours away, so afterward I stopped at the mall. I couldn't wait to get it on so I put it on in the car for the ride home.

    Now I wear panties and a bra to work pretty often. No one has noticed so far.

    It gets easier to do after a while

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    Recently I went to my regular bar while underdressed. It was my first time and it felt great wearing panties and stockings among those beer drinking machos.

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    I've started underdressing recently as I haven't got many opportunities to fully dress. Currently wearing a thong, garter belt and stockings and it feels great! I can't begin to explain how good it feels. I don't think I can get away with a bra, my family would notice, and I don't really have the confidence to underdress in public, even though only I would know, I'd still feel a little paranoid maybe, I don't know.

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    I also under-dress quite often for work, and at home (when the kids and wife are home), with panties, hose/tights, and sometimes even a bra. I've also worn mascara to work a few times. I enjoy that it allows me to get out of my own head when the day gets rough and the feel of the underwear against my body sometimes occasions an 'If they only knew what was under the chinos...' thought which can help me make a mental re-set and get me back focused on the job at hand. I also find myself smiling more when I under-dress which can only be a good thing.

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    I always wear knickers and have not worn male underwear for decades, so I don't really feel very different as for me this is what I do every day. Depending on the weather I will also wear cami tops or a slip and sometimes stockings. It always feels good but for me this is now normal and I don't even stop to think about it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CONSUELO View Post
    I always wear knickers and have not worn male underwear for decades, so I don't really feel very different as for me this is what I do every day. Depending on the weather I will also wear cami tops or a slip and sometimes stockings. It always feels good but for me this is now normal and I don't even stop to think about it.
    I, too have been wearing female underclothing for years, and, like you, don't think about it, per se, but some days, if I happen to be wearing a particularly sexy pair of lace knickers, I feel a little brighter all day long. There is something psychological about knowing that I am wearing sexy clothing that makes me feel more - oh, I don't know how to describe it exactly - not powerful, or "in charge", really, but sort of as if I have an "edge" on the rest of the world. My ex-wife used to say the same thing. She liked to wear especially sexy underclothing when she knew she had a high-level, or important meeting that day. She said it was particularly empowering to wear stockings and a suspender belt with no panties under her conservative suit.
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    I've been wearing panties 24/7 for quite a few years now so it's just normal. I will tell you that on the rare occasion that I put on a pair of men's underwear (ugh doctor visits only) I feel extremely uncomfortable and I get those things off of me ASAP.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Selene EV View Post
    I've been wearing panties 24/7 for quite a few years now so it's just normal. I will tell you that on the rare occasion that I put on a pair of men's underwear (ugh doctor visits only) I feel extremely uncomfortable and I get those things off of me ASAP.
    Same for me. I wear panties 24/7 and the last doctors visit I dug out a pair of tighty whiteys because i knew I was going to get a shot in the rump. I couldn't wait to get them off.

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