Honestly Lea, at this point I'm just afraid of her, and what could happen if she talks about my visit up there. I just want this to be over. I don't understand why she is so hateful. Well, I guess I do, but I always thought she was a much better person than that. She has always prided herself on being liberal, accepting, open minded, pro-equality.
Apparently not though - at least not in her own back yard.
BTW, if she'd simply divorced me, and been done with it, that would have been hard, but OK. As it is, I have this overwhelming feeling that she isn't so upset about losing her husband, but that she's upset over losing the stuff his money could pay for. She also feels very entitled to a future nobody promised her, that she made up in her own mind.
I don't even know if she really felt anything for me before. It feels kinda like I was just desirable for my income. It's funny - she always worried people would think that. Nobody did really, but maybe she was trying to reassure herself?