I was wearing some pants that I got from Kohls junior dept, metal stars on the cargo pockets and a button/strap on the side to make them into capris. A neighbor was over yesterday and made the comment. Are those women's pants? I said no but she said They have stars and a button to make them into capris. you are wearing women's pants. Now the pants are not overly feminine but a little tighter than a male pant would be and are close to being hiking pants. My wife knows and accepts the panties and sometimes pantyhose but has never commented on the fem pants. I don't know if she doesn't realize that the pants are women's or that she just lets it slide. I have several similar pair although not all the same style/design. Anyway, the wife was right there but did not say a word. If she looks at the sizing, the cat will be out of the bag for sure.
SheriM