I can't say I am the best at all this trans stuff. To be honest I still find myself sitting and asking myself WTF is this and why can't I just "get over it". I guess you could say I have documented my fight pretty good up to this point. I swear though that I go back and forth mentally all the time between being ok and just moving forward no matter what and stepping back going "wait a minute. your just fine lets deal with it". I have noticed my internal monologue is a little more than normal.
Hormones have been a blessing ,(yes I am on them by a doctor and I have a therapist I see... just to answer those questions), they have allowed my brain to shut up long enough to actually enjoy life. I did have a crazy two weeks recently and still have no idea what the hell went on but brain has leveled off since. These last couple weeks though I have really started feeling normal, though I am not sure how to describe it other than I feel the same way I have my whole life, though I still think about all this gender stuff. I am confused on a daily basis though as to where I belong. People say to do what you really want and that is fine until you want multiple things. I feel like if I go to far into womanhood that I start to go a little crazy and if I try to stop the hormones, well lets not talk about the return of that mentality. So I sit in the middle scared of it. So many times I sit and realize I feel great and that the gender stuff doesn't matter then I realize I am focused on how much I don't have anything bugging me.
I find the normalcy actually difficult now for the fact that I do not know where to go. I go forward one way and get pulled the other way. My therapist and I are trying to work through it but I find I am not like most as that I like my male life. It is the mental state that I was in before the hormones that I never want to return to. So I can say with out a doubt I need the hormones as I can function again but what to do next is always on my mind. I agree that I am over analyzing all this but I can not stop it nor am I ever going to. I might be so entrenched in my male life that it is habit that I need to break or I have no clue.
I will say that the normalcy is just that normal. Nothing I have done has convinced me which way I need to go. Today is one thing and tomorrow might be another. I do know that I have to present female/ be myself? every few days to help the whole thing out but that is about it. How come there isn't a big arrow that points to " this way for all your understanding?". Also why is it that every morning is the worst for my brain?? Ok well I guess that is enough rambling about nothing...