Soooo... unprepared post this one but thought I'd share the feelings...
My definite second time out is tomorrow (Saturday) evening - major ball at Woburn Abbey for the Trans* community... my prep has been.. lethargic, this time - and now this morning I'm having a major moment and thinking: "I could just cancel..."
This is common - I know... I was tentatively planning on getting out this evening to an accepting LGBT club, just to chill, pose and get in the mood. Good idea, right??? I DON'T KNOW....?!?! I feel like I can - and I should... I get the butterflies already - but i'm still thinking (I know, I know....) - Why do I need to do this? Why do I feel good about the feeling (setting aside the nerves, which is just an event thing) but still wonder what I'm doing...?
Am I making a complete plonker of myself? Surely not... This is deeper than just a bit of socialising and dancing - I wouldn't need to do that en femme or in drag right...? But I'm still thinking of (and enjoying) what hair? Blonde or darker...? What shoes...? Is a feather boa absolutely de rigeur...? (Yes, yes, YES!!!)
So maybe tonight will settle me - nothing wild, just getting out, mess with some outfits, blah, blah... but then tomorrow is the full Monty... I know I have to do it to find out... It's not quite 'climbing the mountain coz it's there', but I suspect it's our equivalent of that timeless rationale...
Wish me luck everyone - who knows what the next couple of days will bring...
Not-being-much-of-a-drama-kween Katey x