Okay. A warning first: this thread is about "spousal" and "GG" acceptance, but not in a "warm-hearted, compromise" type of way. It is an "alternative opinion", so traditionalists be warned! (I also want to state that this opinion does not in any way intend to take away from very real "family-issues" people may be experiencing, especially when children are involved.)
Question: why do so many CDs seem to be unabashedly beholden to the "rules" of their wives?
Are marriages so often on "shaky grounds" that expressions of individual creativity and gender-fluidity have to be "shoved under the carpet"?
Why are men so afraid to be themselves? What is this strange "illusory power" projected onto wives?
Isn't this idea of "having a choice to CD or not" just a big lie? There really is no choice.
This above all: To thine own self be true.