Wow. Thank you all for your replies. I went to bed last night with the hopes someone may reply. I am so pleased to see and read all the replies. I think I will take away from this is that the last thing I need is for my wife to back away or get caught up in a flame war. So I believe that I will settle in here and work towards telling her I have found a place to belong and have some friends with real experience navigating thru this wonderful journey. Thank you all. My new friends
Endless hugs,
Vinni
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Let me give a special thank you to BillieAnneJean for your note. Very kind of you dear.
Vinni