Assumptions can be dangerous bedfellows Pamela... never assume anything either way, would be my motto.
As to my 'stash', I am 100% certain that my wife cannot discover it... it is simply physically impossible for her to get there...
As far as my habit goes: she knows that I enjoy painting my nails (but I think she thinks it's a throwback to Airfix kit days [thank you Christine...]); she knows that I shave my legs; she encourages me to pluck my eyebrows; she tells me that I dance like a girl... but she's so 'small-c' conservative as to make me avoid any conversations about gender issues, sexuality divergence or alternative 'lifestyles'... I'm pretty sure it would be the last thing she would suspect...
But she knows that she's loved and I'm completely dedicated to her - why would she think anything else..?
And she's at least a couple sizes smaller than me and I've never been tempted to pillage her lingerie or anything else - I know it's a common theme but not
all of us do it...
Seriously...
Katey x