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    feeling overtaking in work

    As I work in an airport I'm constantly seeing all the girls from the cabin crew in their uniforms and admiring the look finished off sometimes wit some lovely heels, I really wish I could just go home and get dressed as myself.

    just wondered if any other girls have similar experience.

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    Hi Crystal,

    I would be lying if I said I have not had similar thoughts . . . not cabin crew mind you. I have been out doing my guy thing and seen women dressed in a way I would like to dress and think about doing so.

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    Working where you are and seeing all those trim taut terrific girls all day does skew your view of life.

    It is still nice to dream and look forward to going home at the end of the day.
    Work on your elegance,
    and beauty will follow.

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    I had that same experience when I was a limo driver and spent mega-hours in airport terminals. I was also a part-time wedding photographer,many of the events were just a steady flow of attractive ladies dressed in their finest,often it was so overwhelming that I had trouble staying focused on my duties.
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    well like was mentioned on annother thread "you might e a cross dresserif" ------ when you look at a shapely lady and instead of "anting her" you wish you were her . I am getting uite a few lessons in style and mannerism's this way as well as a whole perspective on different levels of being fem .
    hugs phylis anne

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    Not a day goes by when I don't see an attractive woman and think "I wish I looked like that," or "gee, I wish I could wear that." It's just part of my life.

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    Too many times to count unfortunately. See a make up style that you can't do, see a real woman dressed out the way you wish you could dress out and the list goes on and on. Saw quite a few today alone.
    Flip Flops were made for Beaches & Bath Houses, We have neither in 2017. Lose the flip flops!

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    I have a student this semester that is knock out beautiful, dark hair, dark eye, and dress to the nines every day. Her make up is always perfect. I so want to ask her where she get her clothes, could she give me make up lesson. She has great style, I am not lusting after her, I am lusting being her.

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    Always plenty of women in skirts, dresses and heels at the many trade shows and conferences I attend for work, making me daydream about what awaits me in my suitcase up in my hotel room at the end of the day ...

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    Annaliese that's exactly how I feel, I get a feeling if deep jealousy when I see these women looking so perfect and I wish I could be one of them, and I can't even ask them for tips x

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    I used to work on Capital Hill in DC. My goodness the women who worked there knew how to dress. Needless to say, I was very envious.

    I suppose, you could just go home and get dressed yourself. What's stopping you?
    Remember always that you not only have the right to be an individual, you have an obligation to be one.

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    Be careful Crystal! I used to have those feelings too. One morning I woke up and my pee pee had been turned into a vejay. From then on, I had to dress like a woman. Oh how cruel fate is!!!

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    Yesterday at a customer's house , morning, she is wearing a LBD with flats. I'm working doing my thing almost finished and she comes to check on me. She is now wearing high heeled platform pumps in a tan color. She is cute but all I see is what she is wearing and of course can not say anything.

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    Yes I do that too, look at how a beautiful lady is dressed and think I might look good in that lol.
    So for those of us who dress I say it's common

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    I wonder if there are many of us who don't have these thoughts? For me, it could be a dress or just a cute tank top and shorts. I've forever looking at women and appreciating what they are wearing. And it seems the more I dress the more I appreciate them!

    But Crystal yes, I do think that flight attendants are really classy dressers and it's great that you get to appreciate them every day!
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    Agree! I'm there with those thoughts almost everyday!!!

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    Just when I was starting to cultivate a nurse fantasy, you had to mention flight attendant. Oh, those cute little hats. Braniff, PanAm, TWA.

    Flight+Attendant+Air+hostess+Costums.jpg
    I've waited so long for this time. Makeup is so frustrating. Shaking hands and I look so old. This was a mistake.
    My new maid's outfit is cute. Sure fits tight.
    And then I step into the bedroom and in the mirror, I see a beautiful woman looking back at me.
    Smile, Honey! You look fabulous!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Annaliese View Post
    I so want to ask her where she get her clothes, could she give me make up lesson. She has great style, I am not lusting after her, I am lusting being her.
    Hi Annaliese - you're clearly observing the appropriate lines, as you must - but I couldn't help but laugh out loud at the image of the politically-correct fallout fr one in your position asking those perfectly normal questions. No faculty handbook I've ever seen has a rule prohibiting them, of course, so you wouldn't be crossing an "established line" (though that wouldn't protect you from having a harassment charge being made). At the same time, genetically female teachers are free to ask them; so perhaps you're being unfairly constrained by not being free to ask the same normal questions any other woman would ask. Perhaps you could consider filing a complaint with the U yourself and striking a blow for CD-TG liberty?! Hugs - Diane

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    When I was a kid I thought my uncle had the coolest job. He worked for united airlines. I remember him taking us on a tour of the airport and telling me he trained flight attendants . This was in Seattle in the sixties.

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    I often in my youth wondered why I was not sexually aroused to the extent of what other men were by a well put together lady. Now I realize that I was envious of them to a great extent and always had wished that I could dress that beautifully. At the same time I really liked to dress well as a man and get compliments from not only my wife but from women acquaintance. This is just the start of an idea for a new post that I will be working on offline called THE MUSINGS OF AN OLD MAN.

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    I find myself doing exactly the same at work, am totally jealous of what the girls can wear and working out ways I can bring a hint to my outfits (unsuccessfully I might add).

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    Here's one... Anyone ever been to a casino and the beverage girls come around...... "Sir, would you like anything" I will say coors light, but inside I am thinking, your job.... lol
    Chickens should be allowed to cross the road without having their motives questioned

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    Yup, my life often takes me to places like business events where a lot of attractively dressed women are, and I wish so strongly that I could dress like them in public on a daily basis.

    The desire to do so can often overwhelm me to the point where I get angry until I then dress up at home, or especially on a little public trip.

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    Its so rare to see a cute dressed woman here, shorts, tees and flip flops are the uniform of the day.
    While comfy, not super attractive. I noticed a lot of travelers in leggings and long top, cute and comfy but
    definitely not "dressy".

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    i catch myself doing the same when im out and about town..

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