Do you secretly wish your SO would dress the way you do? Is your dressing a form of wish fulfillment?
Do you secretly wish your SO would dress the way you do? Is your dressing a form of wish fulfillment?
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Interesting thought. But my own preference with clothes is kind of narrow. I like classy sophisticated clothes. Currently in the middle of a divorce. Women I like can dress any way that suits them and their body and style.
My style borders on conservative and moderately modest. I am a 72 year old TG woman, and the majority of my clothing states that.
Bobbi
some of it yes - stockings etc, some of it, no, it's what I feel suits me. A big "yes" is wearing more dresses/skirts, not the style just the form of clothing - i.e. like WG in short skirts, me in knee-length skirts (actually I do like the mini at the right time/occasion too!)
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Yes, I think there's something in this. I love it when my wife wears feminine clothes, particularly dresses, tights/hose and heels. Unfortunately, it's not that often, but I find that booking a nice restaurant and gently suggesting she wears that nice dress I bought her does the trick! Plus giving her lots of compliments.
What do I like dressing in? Feminine clothes like dresses, tights/hose and heels of course! I tend to dress in clothes that I would buy for her (my own though, as she's three sizes smaller than me).
I wouldn't bother dressing if I couldn't wear dresses, tights/hose and heels.
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My style is my own and my wife has her style. I dress in a way that makes me feel good about myself. I have no wish for her to dress like me.
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Hi Nikki,
I have a specific sense of style when it comes to women's fashion and I would be lying if I said that sense did not initially come from seeing other women dressed a particular way. However, over time it has evolved and to some degree it shares common likes with my wife's fashion sense (we both like casual tops and jeans) and in some ways it does not (I like dresses and skirts more than my wife does). Do I wish she would dress more like me? Well she is 75 percent of the way there already but I also know she is not comfortable in dresses (unless it is for a special event) so I don't have any issues with that anymore than she has with me wearing skirts and dresses in casual settings.
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Isha
Yes. (Because to answer otherwise would imply something very odd...)Do your femme clothes reflect what you find attractive on a woman?
Errrmm... If I told you it wouldn't be a secret wish would it?Do you secretly wish your SO would dress the way you do
Isn't that obvious...?Is your dressing a form of wish fulfillment?
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I suppose yes to some extent - but I wear what looks good on me (and not what looks good on a super model) same for my SO she wears what she thinks looks good on her
My style is what I like. My wife will give me her opinion if she thinks it looks good or not. My wife has her style and I do the same for her. We keep each other our best.
i suppose it does. What I find attractive I also feel I want to wear, or be, so yes, I guess.
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Hi Nikki, Absolutely, I have three closets full of all kinds of fashions , When I see a particular lovely outfit on a lady
I make a mental note and try to copy that look in my next dressing session.
O'yes I wish that my wife of 51yrs. would dress up in some of my lovely outfits,
She never wants to dress up she's just a jeans & pull over shirt kind of lady, But I loveher dearly
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The clothes I buy are mostly the clothes I also like to see a girl wearing, especially overknee socks and short skirts
Sort of ... our body types are different, so she couldn't dress the way I do. But I wish she'd dress more feminine at times. She's almost always in jeans, a sweatshirt and sneakers.
For the last couple of years, I've started researching her body type, and when we go shopping, suggest some tops that suit her and are more feminine, yet staying in her comfort zone. I think she likes that little attention from me. I KNOW she liked it when I helped pick out her new dress and shoes for our daughter's wedding!
Like many have said, when I see an attractive woman in a nice outfit, I look for similar clothing. My wife is usually in jeans but she does like to wear feminine tops. She looks dynamite in a dress or skirt, but she rarely wears them. I wear skirts all the time, I guess I would classify my style as feminine casual. I love my wife and she has great taste in clothes.
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Simply put, no. I certainly learned how to put things together from my wife, but I'd don't dresses as a proxy for her and I like her sense of style. Where we differ is in our coloring. I'm a blue eyed blonde and tan easily. She's a red head with brown eyes and a bit lighter skinned.
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I wear what I think looks best on me. I don't secretly wish my wife would dress like me but I do wish she would wear a skirt once in a while.
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Of course, dresses and shine soft materials like satin-silk and transparent materials they are so hot and feminine that is what every woman should wear and we
My second ex wife asked me this same question and I lied. Because I dress a bit ****y and she asked if that's how I thought women should dress, of course I said no. But that was before I met my "other half" my true femme self, whatever you want to call it and got more into" pretty" or classy dressing and now I am having a hard time shopping
While I do not dress in the same style as my fiancee, my fiancee dresses quite feminine. In ten years together I have only seen her in pants once and capris maybe five times. Other than that, she wears dresses or skirts which I truly appreciate. I dress more in a more formal manner than she does, more LBDs and cocktail dresses.
I dress the way my wife does. I never secretly wish anything about her as I talk to her instead.
For me its just me and how I want to dress.
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I agree 100%, my style is exactly what I find attractive in women, which makes me feel great when I look in the mirror
I buy my wife the same style heels, dresses and skirts that I wear. Same brand and shade of pantyhose too. Often the heels and dresses are identical. So I would say, yes, it's a form of wish fulfillment, and it is often fulfilled. But it's not secret!