Wondering how others feel.. When I dress a lot it seems I have more desire to dress more and more often. To the point I do it every day after work/weekends etc. Then I'll go through a spell that life will get to busy, long work hours, social events etc on weekends, travel, and I won't dress at all for a week or two.
What seems to happen very quickly is that I'll become "down" about Victoria and try to convince myself I don't need her and am too busy. I become irritable and more easily stressed during these periods that I do not or cannot dress
This is coming from someone that due to a unsupportive relationship did not dress at all for nearly 10 years..
There may not be a right answer, but I'm really struggling to balance Victoria in my life. It seems it's either total takeover or cold turkey no Victoria for weeks on end.