I do not get it. It should be the opposite, here is why -
Why women should hate us -
First, despite women thinking we are not competition, we can be. A few times I have been with a man who tells me the woman in his life doesn't bother to do something for him that I will cause I understand how important it is for a man. Add that a TG is not going to "be late" this month after having adult fun.
When a woman puts her man in the dog house, he will find his way instead to the cat house.
Second, just because some Tg live full time as women does NOT mean we are always on their side. I would imagine most of us MTF (and all males) have been shit on by a woman BIG time at some point. I mean sure we look and act the part but when it really comes down to it, we need to remember where we came from. Society is not going to grant us TG "female privilege" on things that really count, so why should we give up "male privilege" when it really counts?
Only the younger and luckier among us look like women even with no makeup and frumping about in pajamas. So, we have to take EVERY possible measure to look pretty. They notice this, as do their boyfriends. But that is OK, their B/F or husband would never sleep with a TS, not when he has a "real" woman at home (who probably isn't meeting his bedroom needs AT ALL). We won't tell.
Why men should love us -
For men, they are expected to be confident, be who they are, etc. They look at us and see "fags" or sissies etc.. Do they not realize the nerve it takes (especially for the noobs) to live this full time? Who has balls now, bro?
If a man dates a post-op TS, he gets all the satisfaction of a GG without as much of the BS like a bothersome pregnancy. Even if said TS has NO surgeries, there are still options. We are not going to complain about what he wants us to wear or do. We UNDERSTAND his needs. His woman, despite his best efforts (emotionally and financially), has a headache or hates wearing or doing certain things. Date a TG, that crap wouldn't happen nearly as much.
Gentlemen - yes you noticed the "fag in a dress". Guess what? We are not real likely to be competition for you. Your excuse of a G/F isn't gonna want us, so why you hate on us?
Where I stand...
Straight men do notice me. Even AFTER i explain, "Look this is my story", it isn't always a problem.
I do not hate women but had a couple of them annoy me recently.
Some of you might say, "Oh Erin is not a true TS, she is just a crossdresser". I do not label myself. Call me what you like. Not here to impress other TS or Benjamin Franklin or whoever wrote those "Standards of care"