PaulaQ started a great discussion about some of the differences between crossdressers and transsexuals, and part of my response was a compliment to her for living her life authentically.
To which she responded:
I didn't wanna derail that conversation, so I started this thread.
Yes, Paula, you ARE a big deal. In fact, this website is brimming with heroes and heroines who awe me with their lives of courage and valor and strength. And I think those things should be lauded.
I think of people like Paula who made the journey and posts here with poise and grace. And I think of Isha who took transgender issues to the Canadian military. Or Donna who revealed herself to her motorcycle club. Or to April (formerly Daisy), who is balancing being out at work, staying supportive to her kid and keeping life in check. Or Jenny Elwood who is discovering when to push a little and when to pull back a little, because her SO is struggling with this. Or, my goodness, Julie Guam, who teaches us to embrace ourselves no matter where we are in life. Or Rogina B, who serves as part of Julie's support system. Or anyone stepping out of the house for the first time. Or anyone posting a picture for the first time.
Anyone on this twisting transgender road is a big deal to me. I won't lay out too much of my personal struggle, but I'm battling 40-ish years of shame, and this shame takes me to frighteningly dark places some days. But at least I'm now engaged in the battle, and because of that, I'm kinda a big deal, too.
Love, honor, strength, courage and happiness to all of you - my heroic friends!