Is dressing your license, your pass, to leave the real world of what you are told you should be? Is it your way to escape?
When someone says they feel different in a dress or women's clothing over their daily lives, I wonder. And is this why you feel guilty during or after. Because you feel somehow you have not made a grade you should have? Thinking the stereotypical thought that women have less control over what happens around them? This is what I hear when someone says "I want to be submissive" or "When I dress I like a man to take control". Or when I see "when I am dressed I am more loving (passionate, caring)." What would happen if you, as a male, expressed these emotions? Would you be less a man? Could you be a man and be caring. Or allow others to take control of your life?
Now before everyone starts a flame war let me give you MY background. I am probably a type A person, I have been called a perfectionist. I have, in my life, wanted someone else to be the leader. We all have. I thought I was even submissive (how wrong that is...it's fun for about an hour). When I went 24/7, it was a weight off my shoulders and I thought things would be better. But I was still the Type A perfectionist person. The clothing didn't change that. I am, to be fair, much more open and gregarious. But that is because I am "me" now. So is dressing your way to be who you really are? Or is it just a release?