Oh how I wish I could tell my wife. It would make my life so much easier and sweeter. Even if she said do it on your own a couple of days a month and leave me out of it I'd be happy. But alas, When I start to get the nerve and practice how and when I could tell her, she comes out with statements about a guy at work who wore a pink shirt and she and others teased him badly about how gay he looked and did he switch to the other side, etc.. I then think if she ever saw my pics!! Madone a mia!! Oh well I guess I stay secreted.