Hey all, been a while since I've posted but I was on a mix of a dry spell as well as being comfortable dressing to not come looking for support
Last night on the BBC there was a documentary by Louis Theroux(great non biased journalist, lots of his documentaries are available on Netflix) on transgendered kids in San francisco. A great insight into the minds of younger people varying from 3 years old to 17, but it was however only about transitioning rather than the "variety of the gender spectrum"
As explained by the various psychologists he speaks with, most of the kids have dysphoria towards their birth gender and are using hormone blockers to hold off on puberty etc, it was great to see this kind of thing on main stream television.
The only concern I have after watching it though is I feel more confused about myself, in black and white Id class myself as a crossdresser/transvestite which to someone with less insight could describe as a lesser version of a transgendered person, I say this because with sexuality you are straight or gay, and possibly bi. With gender i feel it would be easier to not be the "bi" version but rather male or female or having transitioned if I felt that way as opposed to being caught in the middle indefinitely
I've spoken about before in those threads "when did you first dress" that pop up every now and again about the times I crossdressed throughout my childhood at various points for various reasons and then I watched the documentary and it's like "I don't feel as strongly about it as they do, am I just in a weird phase, am I doing this for silly reasons unbeknownst to me, like looking for attention?
And then the memories come back of the times doing it as a child, I fondly remember sleeping in a leotard and tutu when I was around 10 because I simply had to and felt so right doing it, and plenty other examples I could pull out, so no it's not a phase, and especially not since even after the short dry spell of lack of interest in physically dressing, I think about it constantly. And it's not for attention since I've always done it privately and been afraid to be found out.
Obviously I have some form of gender issue, there's no doubt about that, which only began as a clothing desire and has evolved to needing wigs and forms and wanting to wear makeup to look the part but at this moment in time when I think of myself in the future I picture myself as a man with a wife and kids but there also is the notion depending on my mood that if I looked like a girl it wouldn't be a life ending situation either. I say depending on my mood because at times, using that "black and white" description again I feel like I'm moving up and down the gender spectrum.
So after watching something I was looking forward to all week I'm now asking the question, what am I? 😞