I know we all fall into a different range here. Some dress because they like the change, some for sexual reasons, some for stress relief and many like myself who suffer from some level of gender ID issues.
For those of you who are just consider yourself a regular crossdresser, I would love to know how you cope and keep it at a level that you can handle.
And for the others who deal with gender ID issues, how do you cope day to day. If you had the chance to have HRT would you do it if no one knew? I think for alot of people what holds us back is acceptance from others. Would you prefer to be female and dress as a male to be accepted, because that is what everyone expected you to be. Which in turn still makes you a crossdresser.
A bit about me for those who dont know. I have been dressing since my early teens. Like many it started as a sexual thing, exploring who I am, as the years went by I passed through many stages. Trying to transform myself to appear female through cloths, wigs, breast forms. Now I realize its about trying to make my brain accept who I am. Now to cope a little better I wear female cloths everyday, but all items that could pass as male or female. I have let my hair grow to a longer length but not so much that I look sloppy or overly feminine. Have my ears pierced, keep my legs and body free of manyly hair growth. But I do it all i a way that no one overly suspects anything. Something I have done my whole life, do what is expected and be who I am expected to be. The son, the brother, dad, the guy next door, the guy at work. How do you just change all of that? All things I wish I knew 35 yrs ago, do I just keep living the life that others see me in?