If I lived in a world where people didn't judge you based on your clothing, I'd never wear men's clothing again.
After considering this question for a while, I'm not 100% positive that this would make me completely happy. Sure, it would be better, as in "better than having people violently confront me (it has only happened twice and both times were enough to put me off going out in public - oddly, both times were women confronting me) but I don't know if I'd be completely happy.
At this point I don't know if it's because I think that if I was fully female, then dressing how I want wouldn't make waves (and that perhaps drives my dreams to be female) or if it's because I really honestly do believe I was born in the wrong body.
I'm so far along in life though that I'm not making any surgical changes. Being "full time" will remain a fantasy of mine, simply because it would be upsetting to too many people who know me. It's amusing that my youngest daughter (who is 29) also has this "don't rock the boat" mentality. I really wish she'd leave the guy she's with, but that's a different subject.
I think being able to wear what I want, when I want, and live without having to resort to martial arts to defend myself would be great. But then again if you go to the wrong place in the world right now, you can be violently confronted for any number of reasons. I guess what I'm saying is this is risk management, that right now this is something I have some sort of control over, vice just "being in the wrong place at the wrong time during a shoot out" or "wearing a US flag in the Middle East" or something.
Not sure what I mean to say. I guess I'm as mixed up as the next person. Did I answer any questions at all?
Probably not.
~Melissa