Tics me off when people
Find out that one of us is a crossdresser and automatically assume that it defines who we are. And for some I know it dose but for a lot of us crossdressing is just a part of who we are. And a lot of times when some one finds out we are a cross dresser all of the sudden that's all we are. And everything we have been and everything we have done before they " found out , some how no longer matters. We are a cross dresser and nothing more. We couldn't possible be the good boyfriends , husbands , fathers , brothers , sons ect.that we though we were the day before they found out. AND also sometimes enjoy dressing as a woman. Funny when all the coveted items we are " not allowed to be interested in "high heels , make up , wigs and fashion were all originally intended for men.
I mean it's like I was a kid I pretended to be a cowboy , I knew I wasn't really a cowboy I didn't want to transition into A cowboy. But sometimes it was just fun to dress up and pretend. That's what cross dressing is for me. A fun time of make believe. ( although in this instance batgirl might have made a better analogy lol)
Anyway kind of a point les rant but the thought made me mad and it felt good to get it off my chest , thanks girls