I threw out most of my stuff but kept some items, I want to start wearing it again but I don't want to lose my girl friend, she doesn't know I do this as we have only been together for 4 months and I'm finding it really hard to even mention any thing as she is really important to me, I don't want to full on dress I only want to wear a nightie to bed some nights how do I tell her with out losing her, or should I just get rid of everything and not dress anymore