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Thread: Coming out of the closet in small steps.

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    If only dreams came true. susancheerleader's Avatar
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    Coming out of the closet in small steps.

    Well. Today I was out. I had on a pair of American Eagal low rise jeans. Pink bikini style panties. A women's tommy hilfiger sweater and I had a white bra on . Though I wasn't wearing any forms. I was also wearing a pair of women's "flats."
    Although it was all women's cloths, I kept it low key. It was my first foray going out dressed. Granted I didn't have on makeup or forms ect. It was a big step for me as I work to get out of the closet. "You have to learn to walk before you can run."
    I was nervous at first. But after awhile it looked liked either no one saw I had women's clothes on, or no one cared. Either way, it was a step for me and I felt great doing it.

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    Congrats! The hardest step is getting out the door.

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    Good for you. Let me tell you a little story.

    About 4 months ago I met up with a girl from this site. We were both in boy mode and met for lunch. The whole time we were eating, everything seemed normal. near the end he asked me if I noticed he was wearing women's clothes. It was a button down shirt & heans. Funny enough, I did NOT notice and I know he's a crossdresser. So if I couldn't notice on someone I know is CD then I doubt anyone will notice what you wore.
    Kim

    "I just gotta be me"

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    I have been wearing woman's jeans now for over 4 years. I also wear a bra and panties under dressed.
    I love it, being partly dressed but not at the same time, and nobody notices.
    Rader

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    Glad you enjoyed your first time out. It does get easier.
    Remember always that you not only have the right to be an individual, you have an obligation to be one.

    Eleanor Roosevelt

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    That is so awesome. Good luck. Hugs

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    U go girl! We ALL need to take our own baby steps away from our closets, Amy.

    U reminded me of MY underdressing days. Which didn't last long. I was always worried someone could tell and after awhile it was no longer exciting, just uncomfortable!

    To each T their own way!
    U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.

    Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!

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    I can see the elation in your post, keep stepping out daintily.
    Work on your elegance,
    and beauty will follow.

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    If only dreams came true. susancheerleader's Avatar
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    Thanks!
    "Baby steps!" But I sm getting there and building confidence in the process.

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    i didnt have a chance at baby steps,for my wife yanked me out of the closet and then burnt it down so i could not retreat. my wife also got me out of the house and into the public eye...

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    It doesn't matter how big the steps are, just keep making them. Congratulations! Welcome to the world!

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