Things havent changed much for me , my SO allows me to dress three or four afternoons a week but states she would like me to be me on weekends. I respect her wishes, however in a couple of weeks time a relation will be living with us for about six or some months.I will have to make the best of free time,all I can say thanks for all comments etc on the forum as it keeps me upto date on whats happening,hope we are all having fun