I was thinking about what I told my wife and have told several different people over time what is was or is like to have this Trans issue. I have heard lots of thing on here about different things and how to tell people and even maybe just maybe educate someone about it so they might understand and start thinking another way?
So here it goes, I say listen think like this for a moment, I knew something was wrong early on but that was another time in history and there were no internet or many books on it so I just let time catch up and here is why I never told anyone. When I was growing up I got handed different Tools to deal with it until they found a cure, The Tools were Testosterone, Work, Booze, Some have different Tools but these were mine. So I use the Tools to my advantage to defend myself from the Woman who was trying to take over me. But as you know most Men loose some of them while they grow older. Just think of it like a Sword, Shield, and Helmet, I used all of them from time to time at different degrees. Like work myself to death on every job I ever had, But you have to go home sooner or later so that's where the Booze comes in,, As for the Testosterone it would help me look like a Man, kind of like the shield. So T was the shield. Sword was Work, Helmet was Booze.
So as you know after 40 some of us loose T and most of us get an easier Job just from age, So one thing at a time falls off, Like Low testosterone for one I lost my shield oh well I will just work more, Well my job got lax and easy so that was out because I lost the T I wasn't as gung ho like before and so I couldn't work like a dog anymore, No T, No work to prevent HER , Down to one tool now,, Booze,, Turn up the heat,, Hell I can hold the fort down with enough Booze, No you can't,, Because that tool was soon taken as well from the side effects of age it was killing me so last tool was taken and had nothing left to fight this Woman off with.
So now the only thing left to do is Fight or Flee? So what to do what to do ? Fight is another word for Transition, Flee is just give up an Die some kind of way.
You must choose and have little time because your on a time limit believe it or not? Some can't take the pressure and Flee,, And I don't blame them for there choice, I know it's sad but some have no fight left and just relent.
Some more Bull headed ones choose to fight and have some energy left to give it a shot while there still here, But that doesn't mean they will succeed and some end up fleeing in the end.
Anyway that is my answer to it all and I try to put it that way to educate some of my people down here in Ms, Remember where I live before you comment,lol,, You have to break it down in understandable terms to get your point across to the general public sometimes so they don't keep thinking it's more of a choice that a disorder in our brains that we can't fight off because if there were a way we would do it or take it.
And don't forget this is just MY WAY of explaining it not everyone will agree and you don't have to, My way of dealing with Her and the general public and family and friends. I hope you find a way to deal with it too, It's never too late to FIGHT even if it cost a lot you can find a way.
If a Fat Dirty Over worked Drunk Guy can do it so can you. So chew on that Lady, lol
