Hello everyone. I suspect this post won't be popular, but I wanted to drop a note here and encourage anyone wanting to stop crossdressing (I realize it's not a popular option!) that it is possible. I am a closeted dresser who was very active buying clothes and dressing behind my wife's back frequently back from about 2005-2008. Somewhere around 2008 I decided enough was enough and after a couple of purges I had not purchased any more fem items and am very happy living my life putting my dressing desires away. I have 2 very young kids, and decided to put it away mostly for them and my wife. I felt personally it was the less complicated option. I know many of you will disagree and that's your opinion. But to some who may read this looking for any encouragement - it IS possible to stop (although a struggle sometimes) and you CAN do it if you want to.
Good luck everyone!