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    Dana Matthews danam's Avatar
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    I got asked on a date!!! OMG!!!

    A charming male admirer, with whom I've been corresponding a lot lately online, has formally asked me on a date. He made a video describing how safe and fun it could be. OMG!! He used existing footage of me, and added his own. This is getting real!!!! Up to this point, I've only dressed alone. OMG!!!!

    Here's a link to his video, which he okay'd for me to post on my youtube site:

    https://youtu.be/bpk0b_GdFk8

    OMG!! This might actually happen!! Am I ready for a giant step forward in my crossdressing adventures?
    Been around for a while, been away for a while. On the verge of coming back...Help me!

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    I know how you feel... I'm seeking condemnation from everyone I know, advice of a categorical 'no way'...

    I think I have it, but...

    It is a wonderful feeling being flattered and wanted... Total validation of the way I feel inside...

    Only you will know if you are ready, if this is what you want...

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    Cute! As Donna says, only you know if you're ready but I'll tell you all the stories on here about the world not ending when you go out apply to dating as well. If you do it, have fun!

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    That is so cute

    Would love to have someone do that for me. Of course you said yes?

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    Enjoyed the youtube video and the premise of the presentation. The female image you display is very attractive. Understandable why an admirer would like to get together. The progression you display in skills to present as female has brought you to this cross road. Better to have tried the experience to know if it's for you, rather than always wonder.

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    Jim is GREAT, don't let him get away!!!

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    It's a whole new world in dating, I suppose. Seems like a nice guy. To be honest, it'd kinda freak me out.

    Now, as I pick my jaw up off the floor, Donnagirl??? I'm stunned!

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    Dana Matthews danam's Avatar
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    I am very flattered. And a little freaked out!! I'm everything. I'm also wondering what it would be like. OMG!!!
    Been around for a while, been away for a while. On the verge of coming back...Help me!

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    Have you been on a date with a man before or is this the first time?

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    SWEET and Cool video ,, Hell if you been talking o him Go ahead and go, If your single and you like men why not? It's just a Date and he thought enough of you to post a video it would be in Bad taste not too.
    Last edited by STACY B; 06-18-2015 at 07:46 AM. Reason: SPELL WRONG

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    That is fantastic and super creative!!! He seems like a great guy. Have fun figuring out what to wear, lol!!! That's half the fun!

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    That was a cute video!

    Like many have said.. only you know if you're ready for this. And as always, be safe and use common sense. And have a great time!
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    Good for you Hon. Does he have any friends?
    Second star to the right and straight on till morning

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    Dana, that is an awesomely hilarious video... I loved it!

    And Jim seems like a really nice guy - what a great sense of humour (and a movie producer to boot! ) - if it's something you want to do, no reason why you shouldn't but like Tassia says, be sensible and be safe - and have fun!

    Katey x
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    Rinse and curl your hair - Loosen your hips, and get a dress to wear"
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    Only you know if you're ready for the experience. I'd say this will probably involve more than "cross dressing." He knows you're a man emulating a woman. I'd say his intentions are on par with anyone asking a woman out on a date. I'd say the usual precautions should be taken. I'd say since he sent you a video and it has been posted on You-Tube, his disclosure to the world should make the experience a little safer. The only question I have is what will you do if he wants more than a simple date, and, you only want a dinner and a movie? Have fun, but, be careful.

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    have fun right? you only live once !!!!! good luck!

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    Very nice.

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    Jim seems like a lovely guy

    The fact he thought of rules of engagement means he is considerate too.

    If your ready for this go have a good time.

    I would make sure you choose a public place for your first meeting should it go ahead.
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    OMG what a cute vid!!! Go and have fun Dana!!!

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    jealousy is a waste of time...so I'll waste some....I am so jealous. He looks fun. Have a great date
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    Very cute video.
    I think you will have a great time.

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    Great video, looks and sounds like a great guy for a great woman. Have a wonderful time.

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    Oh my Dana. The first date! That video was cool. Good for you.
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    The non-GG next door.... Candice Mae's Avatar
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    Have fun, at least he put effort into it and cares about your well being. Most of the guys that try to pick me up, say some cheesy pick up line then look at my boobs, ask if I would like to join them for coffee/dinner/movie ect, and then look at my boobs again. I'm confused are they asking me out or my boobs?

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