If you're looking for feedback from those you are with. You have to ask them. Tell them to be honest and do not get defensive when they give their opinion.
I took a lot of flack for stating, that for me to move forward. I feel I need to limit my interaction socially with the "Trans community". Many of us transition from a male perspective after living and socializing as a male for many decades. Many of our Trans friends are transitioning from that same perspevtive. To minimize or erase those cues that prevent total integration. Social interaction with females is imperative to pick up those subtle mannerisms to achieve our goals.