Okay so being new to this forum I have a little question. After I give a little background.
For years now off and on I have dressed in private and was the only one who knew. This past year I had to tell someone so I broke down and outed to my gf. While being supportive for the most part she still has her reserves. She believes if I can't have ladies shoes then my outfit won't be complete. Outfit not complete I am still a man. Of course when I came out to her I also didnt tell her about me being attracted to both men and women. Nor have I told her that I have purchased my own shoes on the side. I will in time but I would like to ease her into it. Daily I find myself more and more wanting to be more femme. The more I dress the more I want to be en femme. I dread going out knowing I can only underdress. Being a small business owner being out right now would not be the best. For me being en femme feels natural. Like its something I was meant to be. Some days I want to say screw it and wear a dress to work, but being in a repeat customer business, its not really an option. I would also like to mention that my attraction towards men is much stronger while en femme. Which really confuses me because in guy mode women are what I find attractive.
Okay so here are my questions.
1 How would you break it to your SO that you are bi?
2 Are my feelings normal as far as en femme vs guy mode?
3 Does any of this make sense to others?