This fabulous thing that we do, Crossdressing. It's just so desireable and the most soothing and pleasing activity. But to others around us, that just see it as a sickness, it's just a perverted psychological defect. And if you're in a DATA, IDWTSI situation with your SO, you probably are an occasional target of ridicule and downright hatred. It is all my fault 'cause I'm a sick pervert. Usually, there's no mention of it and I mistakenly assume that it's just quietly accepted as part of my unique persona and then the anger storm happens. I learned years ago that you don't douse a fire with gasoline so, I generally just don't comment or defend my situation. We're long past the initial talk. If she would ever want to just talk intelligently about it, I'd be all for it. But, from her point of view, it's just a convenient lightening rod for the blame game.
So, how do y'all handle it?
(And, I removed a lot before posting as this is not a rant. I love my wife dearly.)
Please Note: This thread is open for comment to all but, primarily, It's about the aversion of being in DADT or similar situations. To include being in social groups that relentlessly bash genderists not knowing there's one amoungst them. i.e. workplace