Many recent threads on Caitlin Jenner and also previously on Laverne Cox, Conchita Wurst and others bring up many comments along the lines of "if only she dressed more appropriately it would be better", "she's too beautiful", "she's had too much surgery", "she doesn't present a good image of TG's", "all that other stuff is getting in the way of her educating the general public" etc.
It is about time we stopped expecting others to do our own dirty work and then criticising them when we don't like the way they do it. So you don't like Caitlin's clothing choices. You don't think a lady with a beard represents TG people. Or TV stars with glamorous looks make people think all TG are early onset transitioners. It is NOT their job to fight for your rights. They are enablers. They let you start the conversation. So your straight friends think Caitlin is just doing this for publicity. Do you then steer the conversation and remind them of what she is really talking about, that LGBT youth have the highest rates of suicide and homelessness of ANY minority, or do you just agree with them and go "yeah, she's over the top, I don't like the way she does x/y/z"?
It behoves all of us whenever we would like to comment on one of these threads or even start one up to stand in front of the mirror and ask ourselves, exactly what have I done to inform and educate others about TG'ism. Then have a good long hard think about this:
WHO AM I TO JUDGE?