Has anyone here brought your crossdressing into the bedroom. I have for many years and the experience has brought my wife and I much closer as a couple. I go total femme, sexy lingerie including forms. I am sometimes the submissive partner and enjoy this role. It keeps life exciting.
Love Kim
As I always wear a nightgown to bed, I suppose I have "brought it into the bedroom".
here's a trick:
1) dress up like a lady... pretend you ARE an actual lady... the wife of your wife who is now your husband
2) pretend that SHE is a crossdressing submissive male... you order "him" to dress up and be all submissive ... while you get all dominate and aggressive...
3) ???
I can't help but think that those who think their wives are cool with this (or will be cool with this) might be mistaking a wives capacity to try something new or tolerate something FOR HER HUSBAND with being into it.
To anyone thinking of taking this into the bedroom, talk to your wife first and with total honesty about what you are thinking. You can't sneak this in. That is the only way you will know she actually cool with it and not being kind.
I often sleep in a nightie or sleepy tee and always wear panties. But never when it 's intimate time. We are just more comfortable that way.
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My ex-GF liked it when I, or better yet both of us, wore garter belts and stockings to bed. She also liked to play with my earrings. She tolerated me in high heels, but didn't want me to wear any of it outside the house in her presence.
- Diane
It sure would be nice to have someone that accepting.
iam new here and like it a lot i love to wear vintage double layer nightgowns to bed and wife loves it. i have been doing this for 4 years now and i consider myself to be a lucky guy and i love the feel of the nighties on me and she calls me sexy. i have always loved nightgowns especially the double layer kind from the 1960s and 70s beautiful gowns anybody else love to do this and thanks for reading this i also wear them around the house in the morning sometimes
Sounds like a lovely time.
That only happens in my imagination.
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My wife has somewhat, reluctantly accepted Karyn. I wear panties 24/7 - always to bed. Maybe once a month she allows me to dress completely - makeup, wig, bra, breastforms (glued on), pantyhose and heels - then crawl into bed. I love cuddling having her up tight against my boobs -one things leads to another and we make love. Wish we could do it more often
With me and wifey, my CD is strictly DADT and IDWTSI.Originally Posted by Brenda.Clark
Yup! This is me. Just add forms. I get up at about 3am every morning. Carla time. Of course, we usually sleep in separate rooms due to my early schedule.
Jennifer, I agree with you. Ever see the wife that takes on the manly hobbies of her husband or, the whole sports worship nonsense, just to conform? To you unmarried CD's. She might think it's cool now but, a wedding ring will snuff that out.
I've waited so long for this time. Makeup is so frustrating. Shaking hands and I look so old. This was a mistake.
My new maid's outfit is cute. Sure fits tight.
And then I step into the bedroom and in the mirror, I see a beautiful woman looking back at me.
Smile, Honey! You look fabulous!
My Bride helped purchase my first long nylon nightgown, 20 years ago. Since then I took over the purchase duty. Many Miss Elaine, and Shadowline later we have a good selection. Panties, cami, and a few slips, also. She still does not agree to any other items. The rest is in a storage locker, off site.
I had a girlfriend of mine who enjoyed dominating me when we were both in lingerie.
The feeling of spreading me legs and wrapping them around her back was so hot.
I like the idea of one day being my wife's girlfriend.
Problem is she's not at all attracted to women so who knows if she would ever get into it.
I'm not the kind to kiss and tell, but I have great liberty in the bedroom. I give her what she wants and I get what I want, with one exception, I always lead. This is a small price to pay for wearing the lingerie I want.
I like myself, regardless of the packaging that I may come in! It's what is on the inside of the package that counts!
It was fun with my ex. She would pretend that we were both girls having fun only to have a nice surprise.
I wear a bra , panties and a nightgown to bed every night and my wife likes it that way. We often dress alike. She has one condition though that allows me to do this. When we have sex, she and I both perform as females. Everything must be done exactly as a female would do it including masturbation. My wife truly is a love.
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I just get lost in the sensuousness of merely being with my wife. When we spoon I can't help but smile. Her body is the very definition of erotic. So I don't need any other "enhancements" to make it totally pleasurable. She just IS.
What she sees in my man body I will never understand. But I am lucky that I have what she wants.
I prefer, when with her, to revert to the roles we were born with and I feel lucky that the me-guy/SO-gal thing works for me.
I understand that it doesn't work for all.
That is why I feel lucky.
I can crossdress as I wish but when it comes to having sex or sleeping or just being around her, for me and luckily (for me) to her, the guy and gal works just great. I have no desire to bring any "girl"/girl in to our time together.
Sure I go OUT enfemme. And yes she does join me some of the time. But when I am out with her I enjoy it more if I am dressed as a guy. So the time we are out together with me enfemme will always be significantly less than the times I am enfemme. That is also because we spend a LOT of time together. We just enjoy each other's company. If you knew her, you would understand why.
Crossdressing can be a part of my life without negatively affecting the other parts of my life. It wasn't easy at first. I told her before I started late in life. But the internet told her all kind of things that caused her great concern, panic. But after a while she started listening to me. I was totally honest and open. She realized that I was "just" a crossdresser.
I don't need to nor want to bring CDing in to other parts of our marriage. IF I DID I wouldn't because it risks damaging what means the most to me, HER.
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Technically it's a bedroom, but it's setup for much more.
Jennifer, you are absolutely right. Early on, my wife was uncomfortable with it but tolerant. Even now I wouldn't say she is "cool" with it but she does indulge me sometimes. Even asking me to put some stockings or lingerie on. This does not mean she is into it. It means that she loves me, accepts that it is part of who I am, and is willing to do things that she is not fully comfortable with to make me happy. And her willingness to do things that make me happy only make me love her that much more.
No not at home only when I'm away on business. However I slip in to a nightie and panties every morning for a couple of hours before my wife gets up. During this time I shower and pamper myself.
Probably it is a good place to try master/slave and dominate her. I find that a fem can't really dominate me. Yet I find that she does like the submissive.
Part Time Girl
I wear panties and nightgowns to bed and my SO is ok with that but if we plan on getting intimate she wants the "male" in bed with her so no panties or nightgown......
I have done this as well, and for me it makes me most relaxed and comfortable. She does not want the wig or makeup but everything else is fair game. I sometimes am submissive and some dominant but I always really enjoy it. I love my wife for at least accepting this part of me.
No regrets except I should have got dressed & stepped out sooner.
My wife and I routinely wear sexy lingerie, stockings and high heels in the bedroom. In fact, we did this before I started dressing on a regular basis over 15 years ago. Yes, I know I am one of the lucky ones.
My CDing is strictly for this purpose. I do it more as a fetish than anything else. That probably makes me some kind of oddball, not in a self-deprecating way, since I think most CDs do it because of who they identify as more than it arousing them. But it doesn't mean my reason for doing it is any less real or acceptable. I think that is my main reason for not doing it publicly. I can't imagine how uncomfortable I would be trying to walk around 'fully dressed' and trying to keep my arousal discretely concealed.
I have not ever done full on makeup, forms and wigs. For me it is only clothing items. I even maintain a shaved head and a goatee. I do not present publicly as being the slightest bit feminine. I have on rare occasions done what I think is being referred to as 'underdressing'. Where I will wear stockings or women's undergarments beneath my men's clothing. The most exciting time I did this was many years ago when I drove a limousine for a living and was chauffeuring a bachelorette party for the night.
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