I agree that sometimes you have to do what is best for your situation, but this example is one of which tells me that the person is not full time and is not experiencing RLE. To de transition for any reason means that you are not living full time. You have not fully transitioned to full time if there is ANY reason you would revert back. That is the entire reason for the RLE, to gain the experience of NOT being able to go back. If there ARE reasons then you may not be ready....suppose you had SRS and later decided that you really want a penis because of a new lover....? You cannot go back....RLE is there to affirm that you get the experience of not going back.
That said I also believe that everyone should be responsible for their own actions and live with the results of those actions. Therefore I do see RLE as both a useful tool for the person seeking SRS (one that I did follow) and one that is firmly a gatekeeper tool to protect you from yourself.