I am currently sitting with my wife at a beautiful resort in Western Australia. On Friday we went to the day spa and had a full day treatment for two with facials, exfoliation, full hot oil massage hand and foot treatments then my favorite, the manicure and pedicure. My wife said before we left that I could have my fingernails and toes painted any color I wanted and could leave it on for the duration of our holiday. (#1 on my bucket list).
So now its Sunday and I am sitting outside in a lovely short print skirt, yellow T shirt, and lace vest with wine red fingernail and toe nails.
The whole experience has been surreal. Going out to dinner wearing ladies clothes but in guy mode - ladies blouse/ leggins/shoes with painted nails etc and not one person has made a nasty comment. In fact everyone has been fantastic. We went out to some local towns yesterday and today, again totally acceptable.
This holiday has shown my wife that we can share the CD experience and have fun with it and not bother what other people think. At 54 we should be able to enjoy ourselves any way we wish as long as we are not hurting anyone else.
We are going out to dinner again tonight so Ill have to swap the skirt for leggings (a little compromise goes a long way), but everything else stays the same.
We have had such a great time together we are looking forward to our next spa treatment.
I think the world is becoming a more accepting place finally.
Going home on Tuesday and will have to remove the fingernail polish but the toes are staying red for a while longer.
Best wishes Ellie