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    Aspiring Member tiffanynjcd24's Avatar
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    question

    Hi,
    I am thinking about being with a guy when dressed up fully. I am a straight guy who likes dressing up but I have never ever ever thought about a guy or a crossdresser before. Now slowly I am opening up to the idea of being with a guy or a crossdresser.

    What is anyone's suggestions
    Last edited by Sandra; 08-24-2015 at 12:28 PM. Reason: Really *drill you* why would we want to know what you want. TMI

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    Bad Influence mechamoose's Avatar
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    Huh? Copythread?

    - MM
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    I yam what I yam and tha's all what I yam." -- Popeye the Sailor

    "If I am not for myself, who will be for me? And when I am for myself, what am 'I'? And if not now, when?"

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    There is only one way to know if you will like being with a guy, try it.

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    Thank you I will

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    You either find males hot or you don't.

    Both of our default genders have really pretty examples of the ideal. I *love* looking at fit people of either gender. I also love looking at 'real' people of either gender.

    It isn't an assault on your 'self'. Leonardo DaVinci worshiped the human form, without regard to gender.

    I can look at tragically straight Rugby players and still like what I like. I don't need them to reciprocate, they are *pretty*.

    >>Insert Bermuda Triangle of CD vs orientation here<<

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    "If I am not for myself, who will be for me? And when I am for myself, what am 'I'? And if not now, when?"

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    I agree with you totally mm

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    Disagreeing with MM.
    My gay friend tried to convert me, but I wasn't attracted to him, had some hot dude tried it, I might have given it a decent attempt.
    I also find as I age, I care less about being straight.
    I even visited a few gay sauna houses in my early Cding days, I liked the guys but was not in to males at that time of my life.
    Think it was the thrill of a male "wanting" me - probably to old to be wanted now so missed my chance
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    Maybe you could start by finding someone online, webcamming with them and seeing if there is a connection? I've got a webcam 'boyfriend' and it's fun. Not sure if we're going to take it to the next level yet though.

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    If it's something you think you might be interested in, why not try it? Take appropriate precautions (against STIs and psychos), communicate what you want and don't want, and be a decent and respectful human being to your partner(s). If you decide it's not your thing, you're under no obligation to do it again. I see nothing wrong with seeking out new experiences, like canoe trips and chocolate cake - it's just one of the things we humans do.

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    Be careful.
    YES (against STIs and psychos) watch out.

    I had one instance/encounter and it did not help me, just got me more confused.
    Lucky it was with a person I knew and we were both wondering what it would be like.
    I know he had never done it with a cder and ... yes I kept my clothes on. LOL

    Had a few nasty guys hit on me but they were YUCKY and drive me 100% away.

    When I dress ... yes I have had the same feelings.
    Kind of wish I had the voice and more of the look.

    Careful and Good Luck,

    Let me know what happeneds.

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    Be extremely careful and honest upfront.

    Meet in a busy place, restaurant etc.
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