alexis, see the above post of mine with the pic I linked to....
Hey, I sit cross leg a lot myself, but I don't make this one a part of what might be gender stuff. I just think its comfortable for just about anyone man or woman who can do it. Somehow, the very recent times here in the U.S. are getting this kind of mindset where something so simple as sitting with you legs crossed is a fem thing. Yet, the pic I linked to, one of the pinnacles of masculinity of his time, Sean Connery in the Bond movies sat knee over knee. Certainly nothing fem about him or the way he was sitting, it was the norm back then for anyone to sit. The U.S. cowboy redneck culture is making it impossible for men to be anything other than frozen autonomous zombies.