I just wanted to share that Wednesday night I attended a group session here in NY for females who identify as males. I was very nervous about going because I'm generally shy and don't do well in group situations, but it seems most people there felt the same way and we were all braving it together.
The 1-1/2 hour session went well (and went by quickly) and it was nice to meet so many like-minded people, even if everyone there was in a different place on the trans-spectrum (and most were younger than me). The sessions will continue weekly into mid-April, at which time there will be a "prom" for FtMs and MtFs (and SOFFAs), so I'm looking forward to that.
Gotta pick out a tux!