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    Dominant Cd?! Possible,,?

    Is it possible for a Crossdresser to have a dominant side,, Like dominating others for pleasure in bdsm, role-playing or having there own sex slaves?
    Could it pleasure a CD to have thier foot worshipped?
    I always get this thoughts so i decided to ask this question,,
    Thanx for reading

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    I don't have any fetishes so I really don't know.
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    Good to know

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    I would say yes, we are men are we? Men can do a lot and have a slave in sex from fem or male. I had a slave female chase me for years, she was absolutely beautiful and I had to answer her as master and she always answered as slave. I just could not see that come to fruition as I look for more in a relationship.
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    I suppose anything is possible since no two people are the same.
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    Absolutely!

    In the same way some of us want our women to hold us down and take pleasure in us.

    Who you are and what you like have -nothing- to do with who is giving that to you!

    My girl treats me like a lady a lot of the time! Other times she is making her beast give her what she wants.

    It is about love & intimacy, not about roles in that regard. You either like watching their toes curl or you don't!

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    I know the answer to this: yes! Not because we are men, but because we are human. We can be dominant, we can be submissive, if there's something else we can be that too. I generally prefer to be submissive but there are times and conditions when I am dominant. It really has nothing to do with crossdressing or not.

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    Why not? Why does everyone think just because you are CD/TG/TS you are submissive? People really need to get a grip on reality and get out of fantasy land.

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    Your not kidding Jorja, it baffles me to no end the perception of what a woman is or should be so many CDers have. You would think that just about all CDers would have a better understanding of women then cisgender people, but definitely not the case at all...
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    Gives the ones who think that the chance to play the role of the bottom for once I guess. :/

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    I think so for sure, not a sexual thing for me but I've always been a dominant alpha type and like to think I still am as a 'girl'. I'm a woman Jim, not a sissy! 😠

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    I would say all CDers are a bit submissive or "Sissy" by nature...

    esp. in the bedroom!

    some just would never admit it!

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    I had a slave female chase me for years, she was absolutely beautiful and I had to answer her as master and she always answered as slave. I just could not see that come to fruition as I look for more in a relationship.
    Ummm, could I have her number?

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    yes totally......have you met my girlfriend?? LOL........but yeah there are quite a few out there for sure, you just gotta know where to look

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mink View Post
    I would say all CDers are a bit submissive or "Sissy" by nature...

    esp. in the bedroom!

    some just would never admit it!
    Projecting yourself on others is a common form of rationalization but it's never correct. Objectivity is your friend, try to find it.

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    but yeah there are quite a few out there for sure, you just gotta know where to look
    Ummm, gimme a hint.

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    What does cross dressing have anything to do with being dominant or submissive? Many MTF cross dressers "behave" submissive while dressed thinking it is part of being a woman or feminine and this thinking is misguided. Dominants and submissives comes in all shapes and sizes, and being a cross dresser does not automatically relegate you to one category or another.

    Quote Originally Posted by Mink View Post
    I would say all CDers are a bit submissive or "Sissy" by nature...
    Really? All? I know a few who are strongly dominant and ooze alpha male even when dressed. They are definitely dudes in a dress. Nothing about them could be considered sissy.
    Last edited by Melissa Rose; 09-01-2015 at 01:13 AM. Reason: Fixed a word

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    there sure can be I happen to know one very well, me
    well even if i'm wrong, you know i'm right

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    Possible...?

    Of course - both or either...

    For some of us, totally unrelated to the CDing - for others, maybe very related...

    Would it be pleasurable to have my foot worshipped...? Hmmm.... Don't see why not... just be sure to be very obedient and do exactly as you're told when you're on the pointy end of my nicest sandals...

    Now, where did I leave my sjambok...?

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    Katey knows wayyyyy to much about all of this!

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    There are countless dominatrixes and male slaves that serve them, why couldnt there be dominant cders? I too dont get why people cling to stereotypes. Even IF most women or cders were submissive that still wouldnt mean ALL are that way, everyone is unique and i know many tough women. When dressed I would enjoy being submissive however, just cause.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elli87 View Post
    there sure can be I happen to know one very well, me
    I definitely would like to see a dominant Cd in action <3

    Quote Originally Posted by Katey888 View Post
    Possible...?

    Of course - both or either...

    For some of us, totally unrelated to the CDing - for others, maybe very related...

    Would it be pleasurable to have my foot worshipped...? Hmmm.... Don't see why not... just be sure to be very obedient and do exactly as you're told when you're on the pointy end of my nicest sandals...

    Now, where did I leave my sjambok...?

    Katey x
    That was sexy somehow
    U know a lot for sure katey :*
    Last edited by Sandra; 09-01-2015 at 06:09 AM. Reason: merged consecutive posts, read the rules regarding quoting/mulitposting

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ayadooo View Post
    I definitely would like to see a dominant Cd in action <3
    Um, that sounds very troll like. Especially with only 4 posts. Myself I'm not into BDSM or the like.

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    sticks and stones will break some bones but words can excite you!

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    Not trolling MissTee i would really love to watch this,, maybe being part of it

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