I have been agonising over this for months now and felt I was walking round with some awful secret hidden within the confines of my house having almost completed the way I should look and having been shopping a couple of times I felt I could not hide myself away like this any longer, finally I saw a friend who was visiting next door (we expats know pretty much everybody) and thought that I should get in first having been seen previously by people near me. I called to her and said If you have a moment after your visit could you spare me 5minutes which she did I was at this time completely on femme and explained how I felt about myself and that life had completely changed since my wife told me she did not love me any more (just before Christmas) and then upped sticks and left me I told this friend that I felt I was more comfortable and at ease being this way. What she then said put me even more at ease she said are you happy in your head, I said very much so more than before. She also told be that she knows many people just like me meaning that they also cd she said something along the lines good for you. I thanked for her kind words and she left. Now when I see her in the future I will not be met with hostility or anything like that. We so need more people like her, both guys and gals.