I haven't been able to dress as much as I had in the past as my wife retired and we are in the midst of buying a new place and packing for the move. I'm dressed now as I was getting very stressed out and one thing that really calms me down is being me. I do think about it a lot but do manage to keep under control. Everyone is different even CDers so just do what works for you and most of all have fun. Hugs Jaymee