Last week I read a post about a GG having problems with her boyfriend because he was coming out faster then she would have liked, and she started pin pointing some of the things that she thought he was selfish and didn't appreciate what he was doing. While I was reading this I started to realize that I had the same similarities as her boyfriend and started wondering if my wife felt the same way, then for some reason I started to try to not do what she didn't like her boyfriend doing. Well my wife started instantly noticing a difference in my behaviour when it came to my dressing and the the other night we were at Walmart and my wife made a comment that the colder weather must be coming because the pantyhose rack was fully loaded and asked me if I wanted a few pairs now that there was a big selection. I answered her "no thanks" she then stopped walking and asked me what's going on with me lately, not excepting nothing as an answer she then told me we are going to a coffee shop and talk about this. I told her about what that girl was saying and wondered if she felt the same, she was upset why I just didn't ask her instead of acting strange and then told me to use the community for me to talk and read and how it's healthy for me to belong here but to always realize that we are all different, likes and dislikes and that when she doesn't like something she will tell me. She then told me she always told me not to look into it to much or try to figure it out and have fun and just enjoy it. I then told her I would like to buy some pantyhose now, she then told me that's more like me. Does that ever happen to anyone here, read a post and realize it's almost the way you are and then change something after reading?