Just a hypothetical here. Suppose you had the opportunity to meet one of your besties here on cd.com. Best is if you're both dolled up, of course, but sometimes life isn't like that. Are you good with meeting if you're both in dude mode? How about if you're dolled up but she's in dude mode, too weird for you? How about if she's dolled up but you're in dude mode, whatcha think? Hugs, Michelle