When I see a hot lady...

[Ninna]

Hi ladies, i'm gonna thinking in this in the last days a lot!! this question is for all the straight (born male) girls here... also I would like to hear the thoughts of everyone

The issue is... what happen when you see (in life or in pics or video) a real hot lady (GG) with a real hot outfit? you're first thought is: OMG Im gonna be with that girl, or: OMG Im wanna be that lady, or maybe: OMG I really wanna the clothes of that lady on me right now!!

Well, i'm 100% straight, and I can say sometimes I think that I wanna be with that girl and others that I wanna be her, or have their look, it depends the lady, It's rare...

What do you think about it??

[prene]

for me it is a fantasie.
first,
OMGosh I wish I had that figure and I looked like that girl.
Second,
I realize I will never be her ... I then settle that I would like to be with her ... but later it ends up I tell them that I love the dress then I am by myself again.
Happened to my last 2 gf's

cycle goes over and over again.

[steph_2015]

For me I'm happy married and I would have to say there good looking but also some outfits come to mind what would that look like on me and in some occasions I think to myself if I was a women could I pull something off like that kinda makes me try harder to be a try lady fig if ya know what I mean

[Robin414]

Good topic Ninna and I for one think about it daily! I am 100% hetero (based on my birth gender at least ☺) and I know being very happily married I don't want to be WITH her, knowing I missed the boat to BE her (thinking about it, no regrets at all really, hey I'm still KINDA cute right?)...honestly, I'd like to be her friend...I hope that doesn't sound too weird....second thought, who cares if I sound weird 😄

[Adriana Moretti]

hmmm can i say i think ALL those thoughts LOL xoxo

[Jazzy Jaz]

I mostly would love to have her body but i also would totally be attracted to her. I would envy her clothes but if i had her body they wouldnt matter cause id have plenty of options.

[Shads_Firehawk]

In % terms I would say 75% of me would want to be that girl, 20% to be with that girl and the last 5% the have the clothes.

[Katie01]

When I see a pretty girl I get a crush... When I see a "hot" girl I imagine being her. Hmm... I'll have to bring this up with my shrink .

[Lily Catherine]

There has always been a part of me that wishes to look like a beautiful girl and dress in beautiful clothes. I can cope and have been coping with that for long enough. Try as I may however, to actually perfectly replicate those looks is an asymptote at best for both face and figure.

[Vala]

Well most of the times it is a thinking pattern like: wow she's stunning, I love her make up/clothes the suit her so so well. Ooee and those heels/dress I would love to try those on.
Additionally I will complete the thinking pattern with: I would do her in a heartbeat.
Being hee never comes to mind I'm to realistic for that. And I like being myself.

[susan jackson]

This question always reminds me of the quote that is attributed to Ed Gein:

"When I see a pretty girl walking down the street, I think two things. One part wants me to take her out, talk to her, be real nice and sweet and treat her right, the other part was what her head would look like on a stick..."

[Alice_2014_B]

Depends on the girl and the outfit.

[AngelaYVR]

I suppose it is an odd sort of thing to look at a beautiful woman and think "Oh baby!" at the same time as "I wonder where she got that skirt?" but I can live with it

[Lori Kurtz]

For me it's a mix of feelings, just as the pleasures of dressing up were a mix of feelings for me. My pleasure as a CD was in becoming the kind of woman I would most desire, and then acting in the ways that I would want to act toward me. The male me always loved the way the female me turned the male me on, and the way she obviously wanted to satisfy the male me sexually. And then the two of us would have a wonderful time together. Likewise, when I see a really hot woman, the pleasure of that experience includes just seeing that luscious body and the wonderful way she is displaying it (and I imagine, whether it's true or not, that she is displaying it that way for men like me), and at the same time, I imagine myself having that body, and wearing those clothes, and walking the way she is walking, and making me feel what I'm feeling when I look at her. All fantasy at this point, but pleasurable nonetheless.

[Dana does shopping]

Many thoughts ... from oh that bitch ... to how did she get those eyes so right? Nothing, I repeat Nothing is more competitive on this planet than the initial thoughts that roll through your head when you see/meet a real stunner.

[pamela7]

all of those things Ninna but also: it depends on the outfit as to whether I'd want it for myself/could pull off wearing it, and as i'm happy married I wouldn't act on the feeling (its another entire thread/thing to talk about the number/% of ladies who are not properly cared for). I don't want to "be" that girl, I do like to admire her, but I must say society often does not like too much jaw-dropping staring! :-))

what I most envy is a nice cleavage, not too big, just right.

[alwayshave]

Ninna, it probably depends on the girl, the outfit. Lately its been more the outfit than the girl, but who knows why.

[BLUE ORCHID]

Hi Ninna, When a particular lovely lady really catches my eye I like to take in the whole picture then dissect the look
and make mental notes of her look and the whole outfit that she is wearing.

In my next dressing session I will try to duplicate that look as best as I can.

[mikayla1964]

Hmmm I guess it goes like this..I know shes checking me out .and I know she is thinking my goodness that is one hot sexy women there and she is envying me .Even thow she knows im a man... ohhh ooops its suppose to be what I think..lol well probably how she is dressed and that I want to look like her and then be with her..

[stacycoral]

Now days i wish i could be her full heartly, hugs.

[Karen RHT]

In my younger days, I had all the thoughts you expressed Ninna. Depended on the day, and my mood at the time.

Nowadays, my thoughts are more along the lines of "Wow...good for her. You got it all girl, go for it and enjoy."


Karen

[Gabby6790]

I still start with the "wow that is a good looking girl". Although, this may come with years of training.

Then I usually take note of the outfit. Lately, I have been analyzing the style and make up as I try to learn.

Lastly, I have the jealousy thing. As in, "Why do they get to wear such wonderful things and we are drab "

[Kate Simmons]

I kind of tend to think all three myself.

[Rachael Leigh]

I know for me I usually think I would love to look that good in my clothes. For me I think it is mostly about the look and feel of how the clothes are. I also pay attention to the makeup and wonder could I ever do that look

[Alice Torn]

First, there is no way i could be with any lady i see. Second, i want to imitate her look! Gabby, I so agree. Sometimes envy and jealousy, some resentment, that we guys are not allowed to do what they do, without negative reactions,.